@TurtleMat said in #521:
> t night displaying expensive stuff, and get harassed *on average* exactely as often as men. no special treatment.
If women went home at night flashing of their wealth through jewlery, electronics etc, then they should expected to get robbed more often then if men did the same thing.
As a woman is much easier to overpower on average than a man. Men and Women are not equal, so stop pretending that they are. They should be treated at an equal level, but please do not pretend that they are the same, it will just lead to hurt/pain and further inequalities down the line.
Like imagine you are in a burning building, and you've broken your leg due to fallen debris. Who do you want dragging you out of that building a 120lb 5ft 4 woman, or a 6ft 5 300lb man.
Criminals don't care about your ethics or your morals, which is why they are criminals. If they cared about morality, then they'd not be robbing you.
Its not victim blaming to tell people to have the common sense to realize that not everyone in this universe confirms to their specific way of thinking and going about their business, and that they should sufficiently prepare themselves for potential scenarios.
Imagine i went to ISIS as a christian preacher, what would happen to me. Would your first reaction be "oh isnt ISIS so evil", or "wow what an idiot, why the hell did he try preaching christianity to ISIS".
There's a reason we have the darwin awards.
If you want to start talking about equality in Chess for example, then we're going to need to start removing titles from Women. All of the female exclusive titles, because they are significantly easier to obtain than their male counterparts. Men can play against Women, this game is not a segregated sport, so why are the titles so segregated???
www.fide.com/docs/regulations/FIDE%20Title%20Regulations%202022.pdfIs Fide so sexist as to make the claim in their own regulations that women simply cannot compete against men in Chess?
Is FIDE's official position that women are not good at this game.
Certainly seems to be the case.
[P.S I do not agree with FIDE's position, and would support the removal of Female titles, or the change of said titles to match the requirements for the non-gendered equivalents I.E WFM and FM having similar requirements]
[PPS Will I or another lichess member who is a Male, get to write up a blog post about harassment of Men online. I've had several instances in the past of harassment of a sexual nature in Chess and IRL. I've also had several women, in the past, slap my ass, while going about my day, and frankly this sort of behaviour is unacceptable in modern society. I have mentally never been the same.]