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What are women most attracted in men?

@Oportunist said in #12:
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Look, it's never worth putting up some sort of mask so that someone likes you.

I assume that if you're trying to get a girl you want to stay with them forever or "till death do us part".

How tiring is it to put on a mask for a couple hours while being with her? Now how tiring does several decades sound?

A lot of people will tell you that all you need is money, social status, looks, etc. But at the end of the day, people with money, social status, looks and everything else are also the people that seem to not have successful relationships.

Have you seen how often celebrities break up?

Have you seen how many girlfriends "the popular guy" has?

Or the "rich guy"?

Ofc I'm not saying you should just not work hard at all and expect everything to come to you - but I think how your everyday actions are far more important in a relationship than anything else, whether that relationship be romantic or no.
When I chat up the Ladies, I simply show them a filtered video of me looking like Tom Cruise, and assure them that, that is what I really look like !
most are fooled by this cunning subterfuge. :).
@Mrchess78 said in #38:
> 6 foot 2 +

I'm 6 foot 7, I'm too tall...

> Six pack abbs

but I am severely myopic, I have allergies to antibiotics, and also Achilles heel pain. I can't get into a Ferrari, I often slip on the stairs because my feet are too big and stick out from the steps.

> Financially secure

financially I don't work but I study at university.

> Own house
> Look like a male model
> A Pirate/Vampire/warewolf/Surgeon/

if you're talking about werewolf, then I guess eating chicken at nocturnal hours puts me in the category.

> Funny

funny? mostly black humor.

> Mysterious

I'm not mysterious, I have nothing to hide about my life. I have my little routine and that’s it. I live very calmly and I am rather phlegmatic.

it's worse than the MBTI lol
@CSKA_Moscou said in #54:
> I'm 6 foot 7, I'm too tall...
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> if you're talking about werewolf, then I guess eating chicken at nocturnal hours puts me in the category.
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> it's worse than the MBTI lol

But !, you took your height to a new level, so your a non-Cookie cutter, plus you've got the guts to voice your thoughts too. :).
Everyone looks for intelligence,noone said anything abaut having a good heart,if i was a woman my ideal boyfriend would be forest gump,why do you want intelligent? So you can solve math problems together?
Oh, I know the answer to the question (in question), but I won ́t share it with you...: )
@Sweatergirl said in #39:
> What are women most attracted in men? Personally I like a man who smells nice, but a pleasant smelling one is a rare find. There are just too many smelly boys in the world who grow up to be smelly men. Don't you agree?
You think boys are smelly cause girls do make up and perfume all the time!
@Oportunist said in #56:
> Everyone looks for intelligence,noone said anything abaut having a good heart,if i was a woman my ideal boyfriend would be forest gump,why do you want intelligent? So you can solve math problems together?

I am a rationalist, so I consider that to have a good heart, you must have a mind that has the purity of the good heart. scientifically speaking, the heart is a muscle, the brain an organ. empathy and love, that's what matters and that science cannot precisely explain and recreate artificially.
@CSKA_Moscou said in #59:
> I am a rationalist, so I consider that to have a good heart, you must have a mind that has the purity of the good heart. scientifically speaking, the heart is a muscle, the brain an organ. empathy and love, that's what matters and that science cannot precisely explain and recreate artificially.

Are you jelous i picked forest gump over you?